Subdued lights (candles are even better), fragrances, relaxing music, a bottle of chilled champagne… these are easy to arrange, and they will turn your lovemaking into a most romantic affair; just take your time, enjoy the atmosphere of your spa.►►► I hope you would agree that a couch is a great piece of furniture for making love, even though it’s important to have the right kind of couch. The depth and the height of the seat, the shape and the size of the armrests, the type and the width of the back… These things determine how convenient your couch is for having sex, and which positions would be good for it. We can come up with a huge number of suggestions, but, to illustrate the main principles, these 10 positions would do.►►► Research shows that the highest percentage of extramarital affairs take place at work. Whether the boss likes it or not, co-workers tend to flirt with each other. You sure remember the Clinton-Lewinsky affair, it’s one of the kind. Whether you’re a President or an intern, it doesn’t make much of a difference, sometimes we all want to do it. Anyway, since it can’t be helped, let’s come up with 10 comfortable positions for office furniture; you can hardly expect to have a king-size bed at your workplace.►►► Some of us are obsessed with self-improvement, some clench their teeth and sweat in a gym, some sacrifice everything for the sake of achieving a goal, and others like to have their cake and eat it. This essay will highlight the later approach.►►► Did you ever have a chair give way under you, or, probably, you witnessed it happen? Believe me, it’s a miserable experience, especially if ill-timed. That’s the reason why I want to precede my detailing of sex positions in a chair by a warning: make sure your chair is a sturdy one.►►► You’re not into sweets, or sweets mean food for you? Ice-cream, candy, tarts… all those things that jeopardize your diet. That’s not what I’m talking about, even though I’m very much into desserts; we’ll discuss sex sweets, and, unfortunately, the assortment of these recipes is way more limited; besides, many of them are quite bland.►►► It was the first place we decided to check out once we had heard about clothing optional resorts for married couples. This place is considered to be an elite one, and that’s why we decided to try it first. Not that we’re nudists or swinger movement adepts, but since I plan to cover this topic in my book on marital sex, I need to explore this type of sexuality and see it with my own eyes.►►► I learned about this place from an Houellebecq’s novel, and even though I’m not at all into nudism, I decided I should visit Cap d’Agde, since I study everything related to sexuality and I’m interested in all its manifestations.►►► If a woman has strong reasons to keep a certain man by her side, she should stay alert. By nature, a man is an alpha male dog, this is something to be remembered; the best way to keep him “leashed” is sex. All the other things, including family hearth, happy laughter of the children, a secure roof over your heads etc. are valid, but less reliable. Don’t entertain fickle illusions; alas, the above is true, and life keeps proving it.►►► Have you ever bothered to make a record of all the sex positions you use regularly, or tried at least once? It’s actually a major resource. Of course, the number of positions is not an end in itself, and yet love cuisine is the same as any other cuisine: the more ingredients you have, the more enticing your food will be, to say nothing about diversity.
How Many Sex Positions Are There and Whether Their Number Matters
The classical treatise, Kama Sutra, offers 64 positions. Golden Book of Love by the modern sexologist Josef Wekerle describes 531 sex positions. Forget Josef, there are rumors that a scholar named Legman claimed that there are 3780 sex positions! It’s highly probable that the difference between his Position 3521 and Position 3522 is the curled-up left-hand pinkie, and here’s the point where we should start thinking about the ultimate purpose of this diversity, whether it’s worth pursuing, providing you’re not a part of an adult circus ac►►►