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How to Use Your Tongue to Earn Her Favor and Make Her Happy. 10 Cunnilingus Positions.

How to Use Your Tongue to Earn Her Favor and Make Her Happy. 10 Cunnilingus Positions.

Certain gentlemen would never do it, making a serious mistake. Whatever restrains them – prejudice, squeamishness or bad upbringing doesn’t really matter; what matters is that they deprive their partners of great pleasure. So once the deprived partner runs into an experienced licker, her former love might fade. You think it’s a joke? By no means. Modern men and modern women value their pleasures above everything else, we live in a selfish age, and finding someone who would enhance your pleasure is a serious argument.

I can tell you a story – it happened to people I know – when a woman left her husband for a lesbian, abandoning her two kids, because the orgasms she would get from cunnilingus were just mind-blowing. Her husband was too squeamish to do it. It’s an extreme case, of course, but where do you draw the line?

This article is not for the newbies, we won’t teach you cunnilingus techniques. It will tell you the ways to do it in a comfortable, mutually satisfying way, and ways to diversify this important component of your big love. Big means tender, passionate and sensuous. I personally believe that such love is not possible without cunnilingus.

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1. Let’s begin with the classic, the most common version. If you want to do a perfect cunnilingus while lying on your bed, you should place a pillow under the lady’s butt. For an even better result, place two. In this case not only her bum is elevated, her pubis is hoisted up, as well, at a slight angle. It makes her partner’s life easier. Not only doesn’t his neck get stiff, he also gets better access to his partner’s clitoris and groin.

Since her butt is lifted, she feels a rush of blood to her head; this will definitely send her right into nirvana, especially if her partner helps her along with skilful caresses.

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2. If your floor is padded, he will feel comfortable this way, irrespective of whether she lies on the side of the bed or “takes a nap” on the couch. Gentlemen, remember, you must not rush through cunnilingus; you can show your proficiency not by bringing your partner to an express climax, but by making her oscillate on the very edge. It might take an hour, or two, or three… I’m actually kidding, but not all that much. 

This position on a couch is great for  cunnilingus: his neck won’t get stiff, and he will comfortably caress her with his tongue. His goal is not just to give his partner maximum pleasure, but to stretch it to the max.

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3. If she kneels on the side of a bed or a couch, he can please her this way. He will enjoy a most exciting view, but it’s essential for him not to have a bristle, for he might rub her labia sore. The woman, on her knees, tries to lift her bum as high as possible. If she flexes her back and spreads her legs wider, her buttocks will stretch and make it easier for him to reach her clitoris with his tongue, which, of course, is very important.

This position is great for rimming, if you like it and plan to move on to anal sex.

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4. This is a sequel to the cunnilingus-from-behind theme; even though not all the women like it, they look extremely delectable in this position. Guys find it very exciting. In this position he can treat her to cunnilingus anywhere: in the hall of your house, an elevator, a changing room of a store, a pantry in a restaurant… anywhere where your only option is to do it standing up, secretly. She must spread her legs a little, flex her back and lift her buttock, to give the gentleman’s tongue easier access to the depths of her groin. 

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5. We can spice up our cunnilingus-from-behind by moving into a big chair. Supporting herself against the handles of a chair, she tries to flex her back to make her groin fully accessible. If she feels like it, she can reach his penis with her lips, moving on to an exotic version of 69 position.

She will hardly be able to come in this position, it is rather a start of your trip to Paradise, yet it creates a very vivid emotional background. Once she gets tired, she can take him in, moving smoothly to the next step.

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6. Let’s leave her in the big chair, and take a closer look at this position. It is a great one for him to shower pleasure both on himself and on his partner. By lifting her legs higher and spreading them wider, she offers him an easy access to her groin; thus he won’t need to strain his neck. Kneeling down, he caresses her in various ways with his tongue and his lips. He kisses, licks, sucks her lower lips, touches and teases them gently, trying to understand from his partner’s response what she likes best. He doesn’t move on to her clitoris until the very last; and only after she asks for it.

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7. Now let’s move to the positions where she initiates the cunnilingus and guides her partner. You can even have her play dominatrix, if you like it. He sits in a chair, his head on its back. She is on top, her legs spread, offering her groin to his oral caresses. Her knees on the handles of the chair, she tells him what to do and how. Supporting her buttocks, he tries to comply, pleasing his mistress and feasting on her at the same time.

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8. Here the lady fucks her partner in the mouth. You might want to create a different emotional background for this position and treat it as a tender one, yet oral sex fans will probably find this approach even more exciting. The lady might play the part of a boss, an Amazon, a rapist… it doesn’t really matter, she just forces the guy to lick her. To avoid getting strangled by her groin, he has to do his best. She’s the one giving the orders, she lowers and raises her front, leans backward or forward, thus changing her sensations and prolonging her pleasure.

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9. This is yet another way to do it, with her standing on the floor. She might even feel more comfortable, it depends on the height of the bed where her partner is lying. It’s important for the guy to shave off his bristle, and for his partner not to plop down on him if her legs go liquid. They might, though, if he knows his job of doing cunnilingus well.

Giving him tips, bending or straightening her knees, leaning forward or straightening her back, she can customize her pleasure the way she wants and for as long as she wants.

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10. And, finally, the last version – suddenness and spontaneity, alias passion and love that will make you dizzy. If he attacks the kitchen maid unexpectedly and begins to caress her, if he pounces, roars and gasps, if he’s unstoppable, aggressive and avid… her emotions will become very colorful, and might even overflow, which is exactly what you want. Remember this, gentlemen, and don’t miss the right moment; never restrain your desires. She will definitely enjoy it. Cunnilingus is even better than a sweet kiss.

We can suggest a number of alternative positions for this kind of oral sex, but I hope you’ve grasped the idea. If she enjoys cunnilingus, it’s a vast space for your creativity, with pleasure being your main goal. If he’s successful in pleasing her with his tongue, it’s just the right moment to switch parts; we’ll discuss it in the article about blowjob "How to Use your Lips, Tongue and Mouth to Make a Guy Happy. 10 Awesome Blowjob Ideas".

All of this is described in detail in my book Oral Mischief Sex Calalogue, a catalogue of sex positions that includes 42 positions for oral sex and additional tips on related practicalities.

If you like my way of thinking or my style of writing in general, you might enjoy reading my novels, novellas, and short stories or others articles on this theme.

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“Oral Mischief” Sex Positions Catalogue

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“Oral Mischief” Sex Positions Catalogue

Sex Catalogue for those who love reciprocal pleasures. 42 ways your lips and tongue can make your partner happy.

Sex Catalogue for those who love reciprocal pleasures. 42 ways your lips and tongue can make your partner happy.

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eBook“FANTY Kamasutra” Series.
“Oral Mischief” Sex Positions Catalogue

Sex Catalogue for those who love reciprocal pleasures. 42 ways your lips and tongue can make your partner happy.

Sex Catalogue for those who love reciprocal pleasures. 42 ways your lips and tongue can make your partner happy.

read morelook insidebuy book on AMAZON for 3.99$

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