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Erotic role playing games. How to diversify marital sex

Erotic role playing games. How to diversify marital sex

So, let us be honest. Our dreams about sex quite often differ from reality. We eagerly read erotic stories, watch porn secretly, have sexual fantasies and feast one`s eyes upon sexy bodies of others… and at the same time we feel bored in marital bed, we feel too embarrassed to offer the partner something new, or at least to stage a sex role playing game. So let us give thought to this subject, as it is a highly important matter. 

Boredom in bed kills LOVE

It is true, beyond any doubt. We can discuss at length the traditions that strengthen family bonds, but as time goes by, sex fades away, and many people are tempted to try something or someone new. It happens, unavoidably, after a few years of married life. And it is a proven fact that unsatisfactory sex is the main cause of divorce. That is confirmed by all the research data. You can get acquainted with the main conclusions in the article "The main marital treasure." If something goes wrong with sex in a marriage, the marriage is doomed. The statistics are merciless. Do not wait to learn this the hard way from your own experience. Better diversify your sex life; actually it is difficult at all.

Dreams that help

Our intimate life normally lacks surprises, novelty and diversity; all that is left is dreaming about these things. However, fantasies enrich sexuality, and psychologists encourage fantasizing in bed. There's nothing wrong with this, as if offers huge potential. The more dreams an individual has, then the more sexually active he is, the richer are his emotions in bed, and the more emotions he can bestow on his partner. Even if, during sex, he imagines a different person next to him, it is but proof of his sensuality. He is just making his current partner assume an exciting role, enacting a thrilling scene in his imagination. Striving for novelty and diversity is a sign of intellectual proficiency, and good sex requires a vibrant intellect, for sexologists claim that only 10% of sexual pleasure is derived from the body. The other 90% of bliss depends on our mind, our emotions, our imagination, feelings, cravings...

Role playing games are the best remedy against boredom in bed

It is downright stupid to hide your sexual fantasies from the person you love or to feel jealous after learning about his secret dreams. If your spouse were a famous actor, would you be jealous of the parts he plays? And suppose you are both actors... even if just in your hearts? Why not try acting together, enjoying the experience, and satisfying your craving for novelty?

Erotic role playing games. How to diversify marital sex

Once you let loose your sexual fantasies through making them come true, your intimate life will become richer and more sensuous, for mutual pleasure is the best bond. The more fantasies a couple enacts, the stronger is their union, for they forget about routine and indifference. It is better to enact your dreams with your partner, rather than wait for boredom to lead him astray. One opinion suggests that most couples only need one sex role-playing game every three months to satisfy their cravings for novelty.

The tantalizing novelty, the thrilling experiments, the rush of adrenaline, the awakening of desire, heads swimming with lust -- that's what role-playing games are all about. They offer a chance to watch or to be watched, to seduce or to be seduced, to commit adultery or debauchery, to be lecherous or modest, to dominate or to submit, to rape or to be raped, to humiliate or to be humiliated, to try the role of the opposite sex or of a bisexual, to have a blind sexual date or to try sex with a stranger, to have surprise sex or even "take part in group sex." Role-playing games will make all those fantasies come true. The main thing is to cast away your doubts and your prejudices. That will not only help you diversify your marital sex, but also will give you a chance to get to know each other once and again by discovering the potential of your games.

The essence of a role-playing sex game

These special games are practiced by long-term partners who wish to diversify their intimacy and refresh their relationship. The essence of a game is to stage a mini-play for two, enacting the parts outlined in the scenario. The scenario of each game is connected with sex; each, as a rule, ends with lovemaking. But in a role-playing game there is always something original and new, leading to the fulfillment of sexual fantasies, with both partners enacting new roles.

While playing, the participants will enjoy the sensation of intimacy with "a new partner" (or "new partners") or of having sex "in unusual surroundings.” The game offers an opportunity to fulfill hidden desires, to try something unusual, to discard the routine of intimate life, and to feel even deeper trust in your long-term partner. Boredom in bed becomes a thing of the past, and your intimate life will be filled with new emotions, incredible discoveries and thrilling experiments

How to play this adult game

Playing this role game is not difficult. The main thing is to follow simple yet important guidelines.

Erotic role playing games. How to diversify marital sex

The most important is choosing the scenario of the game, do not improvise here. You should choose the scenario very accurately and later organize everything accordingly. While choosing a scenario, keep in mind that it should be suitable for both of you. Forget decent marital sex, as both of you need new emotions. Whatever you choose – “sex in an office”, “unexpected sex with a stranger” hard core sex or “group sex”…it does not matter, but you have to decide on the scenario and discuss it in details in advance. It is advisable to agree on how your game is going to end – with traditional, anal or oral sex, who will take the lead; and in case if you decide to have rough sex, you should decide how rough it is going to be. All these things will help you gain the desirable emotions.

While getting ready for a role game, it is essential to create the conditions for playing and create a suitable atmosphere, including appropriate interior, clothes and accessories. Decorations, erotic outfits, sex toys if you choose group sex role game… This is most important, as these external conditions help to shape the internal mood and will let you act your parts more naturally. Remember, the more props and accessories you use to make the setting more lifelike, the easier it will be for both of you to unravel the scenario naturally.

Even if only theoretically, your image and your attire should be indicative of the part you play, for this will help you to perceive each other in the right light while playing the game.

Accessories, including fetish, are of a great importance in role games. Try to select the accessories together, having discussed the nature of your roles. The accessories are no less important than the clothes. The spectacles and the briefcase of a professor, the water syringe of a nurse, the bludgeon and the handcuffs of a policeman…. - all of these can act as “mental triggers.”

While playing the role game, try to stay in your roles all the time, live your parts to the fullest…Give your partner complete freedom, do not put pressure upon him, and let him live his part while playing. Play and act interactively. 

When you start your game, get fully engrossed in the game. Try to be completely natural and sincere. Keep in mind that you are under no obligation, since you are play primarily for yourself.  That will make the game take on its own flow and transform into reality.

It is most important to feel the psychological atmosphere of the game, to shape such atmosphere from the very beginning, for then it will carry you through. Firstly, this is the atmosphere of mounting desire. In order to achieve this always share your feelings and your emotions with each other. Attuning to each other’s character and plunging into his sensations, as well as sharing your emotions with each other, will help you to anticipate the course of the game and to be flexible. 

And remember – this is just a game; forget the rules and prejudice and your marital sex will once again become fulfilling and colorful!

As for the scenarios of such games, as well as the detailed guidelines as to how to play, you will find them in Keyhole Secrets Collection of sex role playing games.

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